Divorce is a controversial topic, except that it’s often discussed with hushed voices. Many are just waiting for the right opportunity to end their respective marriages, and the reasons are diverse — physical abuse (against the spouse and/or the children), sexual infidelity, irreconcilable differences and conflicting personalities, gross irresponsibility, loss (and transfer) of affection, among others. Unfortunately, these grounds are not enough to severe the marital bond through annulment. In lieu of divorce, married persons resort to annulment and according to the Office of the Solicitor General (OSG), there is an alarming increase in the number of annulment cases in the Philippines. The number of annulment cases filed in courts, which never breached the 7,000-mark prior to 2006, rose to 7,138 (2006) and 7,753 (2007).
Existing Philippine Laws regarding Divorce
Philippine laws do not provide for absolute divorce, but divorce was available in certain periods in Philippine history. Divorce was allowed under the Divorce Law of 1917 (Act No. 2710) and during the Japanese occupation, pursuant to Executive Order No. 141 (1943). As the law stands today, however, a marriage between two Filipinos cannot be dissolved even by a divorce obtained abroad. In mixed marriages involving a Filipino and a foreigner (or former Filipinos), Article 26 of the Family Code allows the former to contract a subsequent marriage in case the divorce is validly obtained abroad by the alien spouse capacitating him or her to remarry.
It is not really accurate to say that there is absolutely no divorce in the Philippines. Under Presidential Decree No. 1083, also known as the “Code of Muslim Personal Laws of the Philippines,” divorce is allowed in certain instances, but this law applies only when both parties are Muslims, or wherein only the male party is a Muslim and the marriage is solemnized in accordance with Muslim law in any part of the Philippines. For the rest of Filipinos, therefore, divorce is not available.
Efforts to Legalize Divorce in the Philippines
In 2005, party-list representative Liza Masa of Gabriela filed a divorce bill. According to Rep. Masa, the annulment process has been expensive for most Filipinos and has not been responsive to the needs of women, particularly those suffering from marital abuse.” In 2001, similar bills were filed in the Senate (Bill No. 782), introduced by Senator Rodolfo G. Biazon, and House of Representatives (Bill No. 878), introduced by Honorable Bellaflor J. Angara-Castillo. In 1999, Representative Manuel C. Ortega filed House Bill No. 6993, seeking for the legalization of divorce. The highlights of the explanatory note of House Bill No. 6993, in support for divorce, are:
Not all marriages succeed as a permanent union. An increasing number of married individuals find themselves subjected by their marriage partners to physical violence, grossly abusive conduct and other acts of or offenses that — rather than promote blissful, harmonious conjugal and family life — impair, debase or destroy the legitimate ends of the marriage relationship. The bill seeks to give spouses which are shacked by an irretrievably broken marriage the freedom to remarry and possibly succeed in attaining a stable and fulfilling family life.
Divorce is not a novel legal right. The Family Code sanctions relative divorce (a mensa et thoro). Legal separation is a recognized remedy for victims of failed marriages. Our civil laws on marriage justify and allow the separation of married individuals but does not confer them the legal right or remedy to extricate themselves from the ordeal of a broken marriage.
Divorce is not exclusive to contemporary times. Before the Spanish colonial rule in the early 16th century, absolute divorce had been widely practiced among our ancestral tribes — the Tagbanwas of Palawan, the Gadang of Nueva Vizcaya, the Sagada and Igorot of the Cordilleras, the Manobo, Bila-an and Moslems of Visayas and Mindanao islands, to name a few.
There were prior divorce laws. In 1917, Act 2710 allowed divorce on the grounds of adultery on the part of the wife and concubinage on the part of the husband. During the Japanese Occupation, a new law on absolute divorce, E.O. No. 141, was promulgated providing for ten grounds for divorce. These laws are no longer in effect.
Based on the increasing number of failed marriages which confines many of our citizens to a perpetual state of marital limbo, it has become morally and socially acceptable for many Filipinos to grant spouses of broken marriages the legal right to remarry. The present grounds for legal separation which are recognized in our society as justifiable bases for relative divorce should be re-enacted as lawful grounds for absolute divorce. In addition, it is recommended that “irreconcilable marital differences” be included in our present civil laws as a justifiable cause for absolute divorce because not all circumstances and situations that vitiate the institution of marriage could be specifically categorized and defined by our lawmakers. Spouses living in a state of irreparable marital conflict or discord should be given the opportunity to present their marital contrarieties before the courts and have such differences adjudged as substantial grounds to dissolve or sever the legal bond of marriage.
In addition to these reasons, there are criticisms that the existing laws on annulment are anti-poor, as the high cost needed to pursue a case for annulment prevents the poor from securing one. This, however, is the very reason cited by those who oppose divorce — the high cost is intended to discourage the people from trifling with marriage. Allowing divorce would serious weaken the institution of marriage. Anyone could decide to get married without thinking twice because they can get out of the marriage easily with divorce. If the current increase of annulment cases is alarming, imagine how the allowance of divorce would greatly increase the figure. Other arguments against the legalization of divorce are contained in the Position Paper of the Commission on Human Rights (CHR) against these bills. The highlights are:
1. The proposal to legalize absolute divorce with the right to remarry violates relevant international instruments on human rights, particularly Article 16(3) of the United Nation Declaration of Human Rights.
2.The innocent spouse and the children in most cases may suffer economic difficulties. Aside from being abandoned by the guilty spouse, the innocent spouse and children, in most cases, will suffer untold economic difficulties. The divorced spouses who will remarry will have to maintain another family of their own.
3. The human rights of the innocent spouse is violated. The guilty spouse in the divorce case is allowed to abandon or neglect his obligation to provide company and care of the innocent spouse and the children, thus violating Article 68 of the Family Code which reads: “The husband and wife are obliged to live together, observe mutual love, respect and fidelity and render mutual help and support.”
4. Irrespective of any religious beliefs, divorce of spouses with right to remarry constitutes a grave offense against a natural law. Divorce is unnatural and immoral as it causes disorder in the family and society. Because of its contagious effect in society, it becomes a plague on society. A divorce invites another divorce. The innocent spouse who has not contravened any law is unlawfully deserted.
5. Absolute divorce is destructive of the family as a social institution mandated under the Constitution. One of the basic policies of the State, as declared in the principles of the Philippine Constitution reads: “The State recognizes the sanctity of family life and shall protect and strengthen the family as a basic autonomous social institution. It shall equally protect the life of the mother and the life of the unborn from conception. The natural and primary right and duty of parents in the rearing of the young for civic inefficiency and the development of moral character shall receive the support of the government.”(Article 11, Section 12) The relevant constitutional provisions will have to be amended before the divorce bills will be enacted into law.
6. Absolute divorce violates the concept of marriage, a permanent union of man and woman. The Family Code defines marriage as a permanent union of man and woman (Art. 1). The Civil Code also provides for the presumption of the solidarity of the family and the indissolubility of marriage bonds (Art. 220).
Absolute divorce destroys the very concept of family as an inviolable social institution. The purpose of the proponents of the Senate and House Bills that it will give an opportunity for spouses to separate from an intolerable spouse and by entering into a new marriage is not altogether an assurance that the new marriage will be a happy and permanent one. The experience in countries where divorces are allowed and easily obtained, such as the United States, is that people divorces have experienced multiple divorces and have remarried several times in their selfish desire to get rid of unwanted spouses by intentionally creating the cause of the divorce.
There was little interest in our previous post calling for arguments regarding the legalization of divorce in the Philippines. Maybe no one reads this site, although it could also be reflective of the fact that people are still not comfortable discussing divorce in the open. The informal poll, on the other hand, revealed that 79% favors divorce. We don’t expect any significant change of the law in our lifetime, but this should not dampen the spirit of debate. Maybe we’ll get more substantial arguments and ideas this time around. Let’s hear what you have to say.
my husband is a canadian citizen (former filipino) and am a dual citizen (filipino-canadian). we were married in the philippines and in canada & divorced in canada.
i live here in the philippines and currently in a relationship. my bf & i are planning to get married. is it legal for me then to marry him here in the philippines? or do i still need to get an annulment?
I guess, divorce is NOT the answer of marital crisis. Many people dive into the challenging and rather satisfying life of marriage without the needed preparation emotionaly, spiritually, physically and financially. They think entering into a married life is like buying clothes, and, if they no longer like it or the clothes has torn for long use, they would just discard it. Marriage is a sacred thing, lest some people do not know it. A marriage life can be a satisfying, enjoyable and blessed commitment. But since humans are born imperfect, marriage life cannot be without flaw. But a prepared individual who contemplates on committing himself/herself into a sacred bond like marriage will be able to withstand or cope the challenges they may face. Allowing divorce could not solve marital problems, it only aggravates the problem. Think of the emotional pain the children will suffer. The depression that will follow and linger for a long time that preceeds a more devastating effect–juvenile delinquency, drug addiction, prostitution, abuse by relatives, suicide and a long list of more unbearable problems. Some people are just selfish. They don’t think of what might happen to their children when they decide to divorce. Well……still..the solution lies in being educated to prepare oneself before going to marry. Legislators, must, and should learn to address the ROOT rather than the symptoms.
I guess, divorce is NOT the answer of marital crisis. Many people dive into the challenging and rather satisfying life of marriage without the needed preparation emotionaly, spiritualy, physically and financially. They think entering into a married life is like buying clothes, and, if they no longer like it or the clothes has torn for long use, they would just discard it. Marriage is a sacred thing, lest some people do not know it. A marriage life can be a satisfying, enjoyable and blessed commitment. But since humans are born imperfect, marriage life cannot be without flaw. But a prepared individual who contemplates on committing himself/herself into a sacred bond like marriage will be able to withstand or cope the challenges they may face. Allowing divorce could not solve marital problems, it only aggravates the problem. Think of the emotional pain the children will suffer. The depression that will follow and linger for a long time that preceeds a more devastating effect-juvenile delinquency, drug addiction, prostitution, abuse by relatives, suicide and a long list of more unbearable problems. Some people are just selfish. They don’t think of what might happen to their children when they decide to divorce. Well……still..the solution lies in being educated to prepare oneself before going to marry. Legislators, must, and should learn to address the root rather than the symptoms.
I guess, divorce is NOT the answer of marital crisis. Many people dive into the challenging and rather satisfying life of marriage without the needed preparation emotionaly, spiritualy, physicalyy and financially. They think entering into a married life is like buying clothes, and, if they no longer like it or the clothes has torn for long use, they would just discard it. Marriage is a sacred thing, lest some people do not know it. A marriage life can be a satisfying, enjoyable and blessed commitment. But since humans are born imperfect, marriage life cannot be without flaw. But a prepared individuals who contemplates on committing himself/herself into a sacred bond like marriage will be able to withstand or cope the challenges they may face. Allowing divorce could not solve marital problems, it only aggravates the problem. Think of the emotional pain the children will suffer. The depression that will follow and linger for a long time that preceeds a more devastating effect-juvenile delinquency, drug addiction, prostitution, abuse by relatives, suicide and a long list of more unbearable problems. Some people are just selfish. They don’t think of what might happen to their children when they decide to divorce. Well……still..the solution lies in being educated to prepare oneself before going to marry. Legislators, must, and should learn to address the root rather than the symptoms.
Divorce should be legal in the Philippines.. To make it simple.
People make mistakes and should have the right to fix there lives.
Why would the government make it so hard for there own citizens?
There should be reform in the law allowing divorce in the Philippines. Why are we Filipinos deprived the right of divorce almost the whole world have? Equality ang fairness. The right to choose for all. Kawawa naman tayo.. Filipino kasi.
Its better to have divorce as i see some marriage failed especially with those especially cases like being hit by husband because of other woman. This is very unfair to all women. They are bound to have this man forever even she was hurt… its not fair. One should get away on this situation… Can our church help this case….can they give absolute solution on this….maybe if the wife already died that would be the best solution…until our government dont think about putting divorce in our country….We should have DIVORCE so women have chance to get rid with this husband….not preparing to be married again coz women’s trauma are not easy to forget….SO WHY IN DOUBT TO HAVE THIS DIVORCE IN THE PHILIPPINES… WOMEN needs DIVORCE…..understand!
So, when can we have this divorce, is it possible this year? please send me reply on my email. Cause I am fed up of all women who suffer from this case that cant help them in the reality that they need to be out of this husband that can kill them in the near future….
I agree for divorce because nobody has to stay married if it is like living in hell.I was a victim of abusive husband.It was a rollercoaster of physical,sexual,emotional and psychological abuse. I stayed for a while and swallowed all the pain because I ws hoping he will change. I came from a very conservativefamily and afraid of the stigma of a broken home. I hid it from my family for two years and then when he started to locked me up to hide my bruises, I decided to seek help .Some advised me to stay for the children’s stake and it was my role to keep the family intact. So I returned for children’s sake.Yes the reasoning are all rubbish. The worst was that he was also hurting our children to hurt me. How can I be a mother if I could not protect my children???Then one day, I told him enough is enough . On that cold night ,I grabbed my children and wallet. I walked out of the door.FREEDOM. Yes,I vowed to change the course of my life without that man who called himself husband and father of my children.I grieved for shattered hopes and dreams of happy family life. My father used to say that success is not about money but how you pick yourself up everytime you fall. I moved on and went abroad. I am reunited with my children and we gave up our nationality.We are scarred but we are happy now as family just three of us. Anullment was not an option for me that time because i do not have money and he is politically influential.What is my chance against him especially for my children’s custody. My children are grown up now and I filed a divorce. I have known much worst cases of domestic violence and filipino women trapped in that sort of life. Why will the govrnment refused to gave them back their life?
Hep,hep… hurray for absolute divorce! Protect women and children’ rights!
I agree fo divorce because nobody has to stay married if it i like living in hell.I was a victim of abusive husband.It was a rollercoaster of physical,sexual,emotional and psychological abuse. I stayed for a while and swallowed all the pain because I ws hoping he will change. I came from a very conservative community and afraid of the stigma of a broken home. I hid it from my family for two years and then when he started to locked me up to hi my bruises, I escaped and seek help .Some advised me to stay for the children’s stake and it was my role to keep the family intact. So I returned for children’s sake.Yes the reasoning are all rubbish. The worst was that he was also hurting our children to hurt me. How can I be a mother if I could not protect my children???Then one day, I told him enough is enough . On that cold night I grabbed my children and my purse. I walked out of the door. Yes…. I vowed to change the course of my life without that man who called himself husband and father of my children.I grieved for shattered hopes and dreams of happy family life. My father used to say that success is not about money but how you pick yourself up everytime you fall. I moved on.We are scarred but we are happy as family just three of us.