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Allowing Absolute Divorce in the Philippines
This is my site Posted on April 18, 2008 in Discuss-a-Bill, Family Law

Divorce is a controversial topic, except that it’s often discussed with hushed voices. Many are just waiting for the right opportunity to end their respective marriages, and the reasons are diverse — physical abuse (against the spouse and/or the children), sexual infidelity, irreconcilable differences and conflicting personalities, gross irresponsibility, loss (and transfer) of affection, among others. Unfortunately, these grounds are not enough to severe the marital bond through annulment. In lieu of divorce, married persons resort to annulment and according to the Office of the Solicitor General (OSG), there is an alarming increase in the number of annulment cases in the Philippines. The number of annulment cases filed in courts, which never breached the 7,000-mark prior to 2006, rose to 7,138 (2006) and 7,753 (2007).

Existing Philippine Laws regarding Divorce

Philippine laws do not provide for absolute divorce, but divorce was available in certain periods in Philippine history. Divorce was allowed under the Divorce Law of 1917 (Act No. 2710) and during the Japanese occupation, pursuant to Executive Order No. 141 (1943). As the law stands today, however, a marriage between two Filipinos cannot be dissolved even by a divorce obtained abroad. In mixed marriages involving a Filipino and a foreigner (or former Filipinos), Article 26 of the Family Code allows the former to contract a subsequent marriage in case the divorce is validly obtained abroad by the alien spouse capacitating him or her to remarry.

It is not really accurate to say that there is absolutely no divorce in the Philippines. Under Presidential Decree No. 1083, also known as the “Code of Muslim Personal Laws of the Philippines,” divorce is allowed in certain instances, but this law applies only when both parties are Muslims, or wherein only the male party is a Muslim and the marriage is solemnized in accordance with Muslim law in any part of the Philippines. For the rest of Filipinos, therefore, divorce is not available.

Efforts to Legalize Divorce in the Philippines

In 2005, party-list representative Liza Masa of Gabriela filed a divorce bill. According to Rep. Masa, the annulment process has been expensive for most Filipinos and has not been responsive to the needs of women, particularly those suffering from marital abuse.” In 2001, similar bills were filed in the Senate (Bill No. 782), introduced by Senator Rodolfo G. Biazon, and House of Representatives (Bill No. 878), introduced by Honorable Bellaflor J. Angara-Castillo. In 1999, Representative Manuel C. Ortega filed House Bill No. 6993, seeking for the legalization of divorce. The highlights of the explanatory note of House Bill No. 6993, in support for divorce, are:

Not all marriages succeed as a permanent union. An increasing number of married individuals find themselves subjected by their marriage partners to physical violence, grossly abusive conduct and other acts of or offenses that — rather than promote blissful, harmonious conjugal and family life — impair, debase or destroy the legitimate ends of the marriage relationship. The bill seeks to give spouses which are shacked by an irretrievably broken marriage the freedom to remarry and possibly succeed in attaining a stable and fulfilling family life.

Divorce is not a novel legal right. The Family Code sanctions relative divorce (a mensa et thoro). Legal separation is a recognized remedy for victims of failed marriages. Our civil laws on marriage justify and allow the separation of married individuals but does not confer them the legal right or remedy to extricate themselves from the ordeal of a broken marriage.

Divorce is not exclusive to contemporary times. Before the Spanish colonial rule in the early 16th century, absolute divorce had been widely practiced among our ancestral tribes — the Tagbanwas of Palawan, the Gadang of Nueva Vizcaya, the Sagada and Igorot of the Cordilleras, the Manobo, Bila-an and Moslems of Visayas and Mindanao islands, to name a few.

There were prior divorce laws. In 1917, Act 2710 allowed divorce on the grounds of adultery on the part of the wife and concubinage on the part of the husband. During the Japanese Occupation, a new law on absolute divorce, E.O. No. 141, was promulgated providing for ten grounds for divorce. These laws are no longer in effect.

Based on the increasing number of failed marriages which confines many of our citizens to a perpetual state of marital limbo, it has become morally and socially acceptable for many Filipinos to grant spouses of broken marriages the legal right to remarry. The present grounds for legal separation which are recognized in our society as justifiable bases for relative divorce should be re-enacted as lawful grounds for absolute divorce. In addition, it is recommended that “irreconcilable marital differences” be included in our present civil laws as a justifiable cause for absolute divorce because not all circumstances and situations that vitiate the institution of marriage could be specifically categorized and defined by our lawmakers. Spouses living in a state of irreparable marital conflict or discord should be given the opportunity to present their marital contrarieties before the courts and have such differences adjudged as substantial grounds to dissolve or sever the legal bond of marriage.

In addition to these reasons, there are criticisms that the existing laws on annulment are anti-poor, as the high cost needed to pursue a case for annulment prevents the poor from securing one. This, however, is the very reason cited by those who oppose divorce — the high cost is intended to discourage the people from trifling with marriage. Allowing divorce would serious weaken the institution of marriage. Anyone could decide to get married without thinking twice because they can get out of the marriage easily with divorce. If the current increase of annulment cases is alarming, imagine how the allowance of divorce would greatly increase the figure. Other arguments against the legalization of divorce are contained in the Position Paper of the Commission on Human Rights (CHR) against these bills. The highlights are:

1. The proposal to legalize absolute divorce with the right to remarry violates relevant international instruments on human rights, particularly Article 16(3) of the United Nation Declaration of Human Rights.

2.The innocent spouse and the children in most cases may suffer economic difficulties. Aside from being abandoned by the guilty spouse, the innocent spouse and children, in most cases, will suffer untold economic difficulties. The divorced spouses who will remarry will have to maintain another family of their own.

3. The human rights of the innocent spouse is violated. The guilty spouse in the divorce case is allowed to abandon or neglect his obligation to provide company and care of the innocent spouse and the children, thus violating Article 68 of the Family Code which reads: “The husband and wife are obliged to live together, observe mutual love, respect and fidelity and render mutual help and support.”

4. Irrespective of any religious beliefs, divorce of spouses with right to remarry constitutes a grave offense against a natural law. Divorce is unnatural and immoral as it causes disorder in the family and society. Because of its contagious effect in society, it becomes a plague on society. A divorce invites another divorce. The innocent spouse who has not contravened any law is unlawfully deserted.

5. Absolute divorce is destructive of the family as a social institution mandated under the Constitution. One of the basic policies of the State, as declared in the principles of the Philippine Constitution reads: “The State recognizes the sanctity of family life and shall protect and strengthen the family as a basic autonomous social institution. It shall equally protect the life of the mother and the life of the unborn from conception. The natural and primary right and duty of parents in the rearing of the young for civic inefficiency and the development of moral character shall receive the support of the government.”(Article 11, Section 12) The relevant constitutional provisions will have to be amended before the divorce bills will be enacted into law.

6. Absolute divorce violates the concept of marriage, a permanent union of man and woman. The Family Code defines marriage as a permanent union of man and woman (Art. 1). The Civil Code also provides for the presumption of the solidarity of the family and the indissolubility of marriage bonds (Art. 220).

Absolute divorce destroys the very concept of family as an inviolable social institution. The purpose of the proponents of the Senate and House Bills that it will give an opportunity for spouses to separate from an intolerable spouse and by entering into a new marriage is not altogether an assurance that the new marriage will be a happy and permanent one. The experience in countries where divorces are allowed and easily obtained, such as the United States, is that people divorces have experienced multiple divorces and have remarried several times in their selfish desire to get rid of unwanted spouses by intentionally creating the cause of the divorce.

There was little interest in our previous post calling for arguments regarding the legalization of divorce in the Philippines. Maybe no one reads this site, although it could also be reflective of the fact that people are still not comfortable discussing divorce in the open. The informal poll, on the other hand, revealed that 79% favors divorce. Let’s continue the poll below.



Should Divorce be Allowed in the Philippines?

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  1. goimon says:

    long live divorce… any law which would make women more promiscuous (tama ba spelling ko?) is all right to me… long live casual sex….

    this is why women interest me… they advocate moves that would make men a lot happier….

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  2. Atty. Fred says:

    Thanks, everyone, for the insights.

    @Naomi, thanks for the links (and thanks for the kind words).

    @Blackshama, if we want to be strict about it, we have to distinguish between a petition for annulment and a petition for declaration of nullity. The one you mentioned, void ab initio marriages, are properly covered in a petition for declaration of nullity, but let’s use the two interchangeably. If divorce is allowed (specially if our lawmakers decide to include “irreconcilable differences” as a ground), it will be easier for people to file one. The question is this: if there’s an increased number of people seeking annulment even if it is relatively more difficult and expensive, what would happen to that number when the process becomes easy? The way I see it, the rate will go up. As to the poor not being able to afford the expenses, this is already noted in the main article as one of the arguments against the present setup.

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  3. pourus says:

    My belated thoughts on this matter.

    I think that absolute divorce will add incentive to married couples not to strive to iron out their differences discovered after they got married and lived together. It would be easier not to exert effort to resolve issues since divorce is readily available anyway.

    I also think that it is also important to not rush into marriage and avail of the pre-marriage seminars and tools (such as the discovery weekend seminars that some groups are sponsoring) before a couple finally decide on getting married. I also think that there are marriage counselors who offer their services, for a fee of course, to help a couple thinking of getting married to have an objective assessment of themselves and their relationship, specially their compatibility, prior to getting married. I assume that those who are capable of filing and paying for the costs of divorce also have the resources to pay for pre-marriage counseling. Maybe with this, incompatible marriages will be substantially minimized.

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  4. pourus says:

    I think that by way of helping out in the policy direction of any bill seeking to allow absolute divorce, those for any said bill should have an objective, in depth analysis and/or statistics as to the cause of dysfunctional marriage. By this, incompatible couples may have an objective basis to desist from saying “i do” to each other thereby not needing to go to the process of getting a divorce later on.

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  5. in2it says:

    Absolute Divorce should be allowed. Law should be available for someone who needs it. I’m a victim of abuse and abandoned by my husband for years. There are many women out there who are thirst and crying for justice and freedom. So why take that away from them.
    I will definite support the Divorce bill.

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  6. kikay says:

    yes im for it! ganun din naman maghihiwalay, d ilegalize nlang diba?

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  7. mesmerizedph says:

    I’m not for divorce. I believe in the sanctity of marriage.

    Let’s solve the rootcause: could be that marriage was made for the wrong reasons?- then annulment is the solution. I believe infidelities and abuses happen when in the first place there was a problem from the very start.

    We should have aa stricter implementation of issuing license and the likes. Priests and other wedding officiators should also check out the motive of those whom he is marrying.

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  8. jack says:

    i got married on march 20, 2001 and on march 22, 2001 my wife left for hong kong to work as an ofw. long time waiting she doesnt have any letter or long distance calls after she left me. on june 2007 i have noticed from her parents that my wife has a two year old baby in hong kong and she is already married to a hong kong nationality. so i file a petion for legal separation. will i attain justice to this problem?

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  9. in2it says:

    I know most of us believe in the sanctity of marriage. We all dream of a happy, peaceful and abundant married life but our world isn’t perfect at all. As much as we want to keep our marriage, time and people change. And when the person who once showed love and respect becomes irresponsible, liar, lazy, violent and abusive, we should learn to protect ourselves and children, our dignity, our lives and our future. This will be possible with the support of our family, community and law.

    And to start a new life, we should not be haunted nor be associated with those monsters anymore. We should be able to get our full freedom!

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  10. glen says:

    absolute divorce should be allow in our country. why? because wala lang!!!

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  11. glen says:

    hehehehehe.. joke!

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  12. Lennie says:

    absolute divorce should be allowed in the Philippines. i think that there is no big difference in an annulment and divorce except for the exorbitant fees charged in the former. because of the hassles involved in annulment and the expense, a lot of Filipinos i know just choose to live together with their new partner denying their children their rights. some get lucky in finding partners who finance the cost of an annulment but what about for others who don’t?
    wanting to legalize divorce doesn’t mean that we, filipino women, have become more promiscuous. it’s just that we are the ones who suffer the most when we are tied in a marriage that is almost impossible to nullify and so we cannot contract a legal relationship with another party. it is hard to be a single mom. at least give us this hope of being able to provide a better future for our children with a new partner.
    i believe in the sanctity of marriage but when one party doesn’t fulfill his marriage vows, then the other party should be given freedom!

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  13. Lennie says:

    and glen? i think there are a lot of social networks out there where you can post your jokes…..i’m sure it would be more appreciated there!

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  14. nel says:

    I strongly agree that absolute divorce should be allowed in the Philippines. I grew up with the knowledge that marriages are for a lifetime. My parents showed a very strong though, not perfect relationship. Now I am seeking divorce abroad and learning that it’s just ridiculous not to allow it in the Philippines. My ex is a total mess and he’s getting under my skin. He’s even trying to extort money from me. Since Day 1 he hadn’t had a job, grossly irresponsible, a liar, get’s violent at times and now he is having an affair. I suspected that he had been fooling around then but I still hang on and tried to make our marriage work. I never had any idea about his negative sides when we were still dating.

    I would like to seek annulment but it’s too pricy. Annulment in the Philippines is only for the wealthy which I’m not. Law-makers should deal with this seriously. One reason why our country is not developing, is it’s basic institution is kinda messy. The root cause is a chaotic marriage and that brings unstable foundation in the society. In most cases we Filipino women are the suffering the most.

    I don’t think all marriages would end up annulled if ever this Divorce Bill get’s approved. It would rather help apouses to be more responsible especially the husbands if they really love their wives.

    My ex was so lax that he will get away with his wrongful acts because he is thinking that I can’t divorce him yet in the Philippines. That’s his strong weapon to blackmail me. He was saying that he wont sign my petition if I won’t pay him. Nit-wit as he is, he has got 40 days to respond but he didn’t so my petition will go on in the courts. Now my pridicament is how can I get my marriage annuled, it’s too expensive!

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  15. kuma says:

    giving the impression to any abusive spouse that he/she cannot be divorced is definitely a danger if absolute divorce is not in place. I’d say yes to such law for it liberates man and women, if divorces like you said unsettles society and disturbs the harmoney etc, then educate the people about importance and meaning of marriage, you shouldn’t let bad marriage continue though to send the wrong message of what is out there.

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