Posted on April 18, 2008 in Discuss-a-Bill, Family Law
Divorce is a controversial topic, except that it’s often discussed with hushed voices. Many are just waiting for the right opportunity to end their respective marriages, and the reasons are diverse — physical abuse (against the spouse and/or the children), sexual infidelity, irreconcilable differences and conflicting personalities, gross irresponsibility, loss (and transfer) of affection, among others. Unfortunately, these grounds are not enough to severe the marital bond through annulment. In lieu of divorce, married persons resort to annulment and according to the Office of the Solicitor General (OSG), there is an alarming increase in the number of annulment cases in the Philippines. The number of annulment cases filed in courts, which never breached the 7,000-mark prior to 2006, rose to 7,138 (2006) and 7,753 (2007).
Existing Philippine Laws regarding Divorce
Philippine laws do not provide for absolute divorce, but divorce was available in certain periods in Philippine history. Divorce was allowed under the Divorce Law of 1917 (Act No. 2710) and during the Japanese occupation, pursuant to Executive Order No. 141 (1943). As the law stands today, however, a marriage between two Filipinos cannot be dissolved even by a divorce obtained abroad. In mixed marriages involving a Filipino and a foreigner (or former Filipinos), Article 26 of the Family Code allows the former to contract a subsequent marriage in case the divorce is validly obtained abroad by the alien spouse capacitating him or her to remarry.
It is not really accurate to say that there is absolutely no divorce in the Philippines. Under Presidential Decree No. 1083, also known as the “Code of Muslim Personal Laws of the Philippines,” divorce is allowed in certain instances, but this law applies only when both parties are Muslims, or wherein only the male party is a Muslim and the marriage is solemnized in accordance with Muslim law in any part of the Philippines. For the rest of Filipinos, therefore, divorce is not available.
Efforts to Legalize Divorce in the Philippines
In 2005, party-list representative Liza Masa of Gabriela filed a divorce bill. According to Rep. Masa, the annulment process has been expensive for most Filipinos and has not been responsive to the needs of women, particularly those suffering from marital abuse.” In 2001, similar bills were filed in the Senate (Bill No. 782), introduced by Senator Rodolfo G. Biazon, and House of Representatives (Bill No. 878), introduced by Honorable Bellaflor J. Angara-Castillo. In 1999, Representative Manuel C. Ortega filed House Bill No. 6993, seeking for the legalization of divorce. The highlights of the explanatory note of House Bill No. 6993, in support for divorce, are:
Not all marriages succeed as a permanent union. An increasing number of married individuals find themselves subjected by their marriage partners to physical violence, grossly abusive conduct and other acts of or offenses that — rather than promote blissful, harmonious conjugal and family life — impair, debase or destroy the legitimate ends of the marriage relationship. The bill seeks to give spouses which are shacked by an irretrievably broken marriage the freedom to remarry and possibly succeed in attaining a stable and fulfilling family life.
Divorce is not a novel legal right. The Family Code sanctions relative divorce (a mensa et thoro). Legal separation is a recognized remedy for victims of failed marriages. Our civil laws on marriage justify and allow the separation of married individuals but does not confer them the legal right or remedy to extricate themselves from the ordeal of a broken marriage.
Divorce is not exclusive to contemporary times. Before the Spanish colonial rule in the early 16th century, absolute divorce had been widely practiced among our ancestral tribes — the Tagbanwas of Palawan, the Gadang of Nueva Vizcaya, the Sagada and Igorot of the Cordilleras, the Manobo, Bila-an and Moslems of Visayas and Mindanao islands, to name a few.
There were prior divorce laws. In 1917, Act 2710 allowed divorce on the grounds of adultery on the part of the wife and concubinage on the part of the husband. During the Japanese Occupation, a new law on absolute divorce, E.O. No. 141, was promulgated providing for ten grounds for divorce. These laws are no longer in effect.
Based on the increasing number of failed marriages which confines many of our citizens to a perpetual state of marital limbo, it has become morally and socially acceptable for many Filipinos to grant spouses of broken marriages the legal right to remarry. The present grounds for legal separation which are recognized in our society as justifiable bases for relative divorce should be re-enacted as lawful grounds for absolute divorce. In addition, it is recommended that “irreconcilable marital differences” be included in our present civil laws as a justifiable cause for absolute divorce because not all circumstances and situations that vitiate the institution of marriage could be specifically categorized and defined by our lawmakers. Spouses living in a state of irreparable marital conflict or discord should be given the opportunity to present their marital contrarieties before the courts and have such differences adjudged as substantial grounds to dissolve or sever the legal bond of marriage.
In addition to these reasons, there are criticisms that the existing laws on annulment are anti-poor, as the high cost needed to pursue a case for annulment prevents the poor from securing one. This, however, is the very reason cited by those who oppose divorce — the high cost is intended to discourage the people from trifling with marriage. Allowing divorce would serious weaken the institution of marriage. Anyone could decide to get married without thinking twice because they can get out of the marriage easily with divorce. If the current increase of annulment cases is alarming, imagine how the allowance of divorce would greatly increase the figure. Other arguments against the legalization of divorce are contained in the Position Paper of the Commission on Human Rights (CHR) against these bills. The highlights are:
1. The proposal to legalize absolute divorce with the right to remarry violates relevant international instruments on human rights, particularly Article 16(3) of the United Nation Declaration of Human Rights.
2.The innocent spouse and the children in most cases may suffer economic difficulties. Aside from being abandoned by the guilty spouse, the innocent spouse and children, in most cases, will suffer untold economic difficulties. The divorced spouses who will remarry will have to maintain another family of their own.
3. The human rights of the innocent spouse is violated. The guilty spouse in the divorce case is allowed to abandon or neglect his obligation to provide company and care of the innocent spouse and the children, thus violating Article 68 of the Family Code which reads: “The husband and wife are obliged to live together, observe mutual love, respect and fidelity and render mutual help and support.”
4. Irrespective of any religious beliefs, divorce of spouses with right to remarry constitutes a grave offense against a natural law. Divorce is unnatural and immoral as it causes disorder in the family and society. Because of its contagious effect in society, it becomes a plague on society. A divorce invites another divorce. The innocent spouse who has not contravened any law is unlawfully deserted.
5. Absolute divorce is destructive of the family as a social institution mandated under the Constitution. One of the basic policies of the State, as declared in the principles of the Philippine Constitution reads: “The State recognizes the sanctity of family life and shall protect and strengthen the family as a basic autonomous social institution. It shall equally protect the life of the mother and the life of the unborn from conception. The natural and primary right and duty of parents in the rearing of the young for civic inefficiency and the development of moral character shall receive the support of the government.”(Article 11, Section 12) The relevant constitutional provisions will have to be amended before the divorce bills will be enacted into law.
6. Absolute divorce violates the concept of marriage, a permanent union of man and woman. The Family Code defines marriage as a permanent union of man and woman (Art. 1). The Civil Code also provides for the presumption of the solidarity of the family and the indissolubility of marriage bonds (Art. 220).
Absolute divorce destroys the very concept of family as an inviolable social institution. The purpose of the proponents of the Senate and House Bills that it will give an opportunity for spouses to separate from an intolerable spouse and by entering into a new marriage is not altogether an assurance that the new marriage will be a happy and permanent one. The experience in countries where divorces are allowed and easily obtained, such as the United States, is that people divorces have experienced multiple divorces and have remarried several times in their selfish desire to get rid of unwanted spouses by intentionally creating the cause of the divorce.
There was little interest in our previous post calling for arguments regarding the legalization of divorce in the Philippines. Maybe no one reads this site, although it could also be reflective of the fact that people are still not comfortable discussing divorce in the open. The informal poll, on the other hand, revealed that 79% favors divorce. Let’s continue the poll below.
i dont get it why people think annulment in the phil is pricy… if you have a ground, annulment would be granted even if you pay only for attorney’s fees and docket fees…. dapat minimal lang yun….
madami kasi sa mga pinoy pa kasal kasal tapos gusto mag pa annul kahit walag ground… tiis kayo kasi may batas tayo eh… kaya mahal ang singil sa iba kasi most resort going outside the law.. life is not so sweet
but im for divorce.. anything that would make filipinas more promiscuous (spell check)
the funny thing is that women fight for respect (which i dont get since men do not respect women, we FEAR them) but they are also fighting for divorce… there is nothing more demeaning for women than divorce laws… leave it to the women for having … haay
Divorce should definitely be made legal in the Philippines. It’s too bad that the Catholic Church has such a stronghold on many different government representatives.
The Catholic church has often …read more Divorce in the Philippines
hello atty,pls send me some advised,what should I do,I’am a victim of matching married to a foriegner,I didn’t lived with him since I came here,
since 2005 until now we dont have communications,I didnt heard anything from him,This is my question,it is possible that i can file a death or i can get any documents in the phil,to set me free.
yes, devorce should be legal in the phil,
Finally my divorce with Foreign partner is over. What’s the process I should do so that my divorced will be recognized in the Philippines. I have sufficient evidence and grounds against my ex.
i am definitely for divorce. there are many cases when couples dive into marriage out of hasty decisions, out of necessity ( like when the woman gets pregnant ), out of disillusioned impressions about their partners, etc. As humans, we all have days when we tend to have unwise decisions. We cannot expect ourselves to be right all the time. Considering this, it is of great possibility that many of us realized that marrying our partners is not necessarily the best choice we should have done… and maybe many of us want to get out of it but are unfortunately stuck. We should all have the fair chance to find our true happiness.
For me, marriage is like finding the right job for you. I mean, job offers are generally enticing at first ( considering the package, the benefits,etc). However, once you get in, there are instances when you eventually find yourself unhappy with the job and you begin to ponder about things and would yearn to search for the best job that will make you truly happy.
Divorce is not just a mere legal proceeding, it is about two people’s lives being freed from the chains imposed by laws. After all, it’s all up to the couples if they will avail of this or not. I really hope that as citizens of this country, we will be given more freedom and options to decide for our own lives.
Is it true that the reason why divorce is never legalized in the Philippines is that politicians are afraid that the church leaders will not support them during the elections? If that is so, isn’t that unfair? Our lives are simply dependent on the vested interests of the few.
In my humble opinion, allowing divorce will destroy some relationships that could be fixed. And not allowing divorce will hurt some marriages where there is no desire by one or both parties to fix anything. When pondering whether or not to allow divorce, it’s really a case of determining which one will do the LESS damage. Both will do damage, but maybe one will do less damage. I live in country that divorce is allowed in. I filed for divorce. I loved the woman I married very very much. But there was no trust. She’d being unfaithful in the past and I feared she might be again. If I lived in a country where divorce was not allowed and cohabitation was illegal and infidelity was punished (both for men and women), I think I would have stayed married, because then when she would say “I’ll be faithful, I’ll be loyal, I’ll be kind” and I decided to persist because of those promises, I would at least have had the security that the law supports family life. I think it’s important that the two people really love being with each other. If so, then laws designed to prevent divorce sought after due to weakness (economic temptation) would be a good thing. In the end, I guess the best thing is to make sure that the person really loves being with you (your embrace, your smile, your personality) and not just your figure (women) or your money (men).
Hi everyone!! I have some question to make it clear because I dont have any idea about divorce. I am married for two years now. Then I plan to divorce him but how can I apply for it? then how much it cost do you think? He is foreigner…Hope to hear some answer from you!!
Thank you….
tanong ko lang… sa divorce bill ba ay may criminal liability ang guilty party???? kung wala bakit natutulog ang proposed divorce bill sa congress at senate… siguro naman ang iba sa atin ang akala natin na ang asawa natin na ating pinakasalan ay sya na habang buhay na aitnng mamahalin pero di pala at di na tyo masaya pag kasama mo sya at pag nakikita sya… may karapatan naman tayo na lumigaya at ibigay ang tunay na pagmamahal sa tunay na ating mahal at sa mamahalin pa.. or baka naman siguro may criminal liability ito kaya may mga ibang congresman at senador na di pabor dito.. rep liza masa itong propose bill nalang siguro muna ang pagtuunan mo ng pansin… tama na muna ang pamumuna at pag rarali.. salamt po
I’ve been leaglly annulled for thirteen years now but i did not get married anymore. I spend 45thousand which the lawyer ask me for package deal. Now my friend in canada wants to file for annulment and she’s asking me how much it cost now, could you please give me and estimated amount.
My husband a former NN shipcaptain now a port captain in Iloilo has a child with his kumare Jane,an affair with another sisrer Siony and now lives with the youngest sister Menchu and have children with her, have never supported our children, school,food,etc.and to know that still there’s no divorce in the Philippines,makes my blood boil!
Italy the seat of Catholicism has divorce! All other civilized countries have divorce! and the Philippines? None? wake up! Do you mean to tell me to kill my husband to have FREEDOM? WAKE UP Philippines!
Happily married couples don’t divorce!But don’t deny the unhappy ones their freedom to have happiness!
Beng
no to divorce……
I dont understand the logic of not having divorce in the philippines… how many more women are going to be battered and maltreated by their husbands… how many more years do they have to wait to free themselves of these abuse?
Dear Sir/Madam,
Thanks for your comments. I am a black Jamaican who is married to a filipina. She is now a British citizen but married and had to obtain a UK divorce from her former Filipino husband when she was a citizen. Divorce should be allowed and why should does she have two husbands? I think Filipinos believe the country will become like the USA which is not true. I read many stories of men with lots of mistresses and battered women. Marriage is sacred but women who are abused should be allowed to end unhappy relationships. My uncle nearly murdered his ex-wife in Florida USA and so she had to divorce him or he would be in jail awaiting execution. Need I say more.
Paul H,
Oxford, England