There are many questions relating to annulment and divorce in the Philippines, and many of the concerns of our readers had already been addressed in previous articles. Nevertheless, to consolidate everything for everyone’s easy reference, here are the FAQs on annulment and divorce in the Philippines:
Is divorce allowed under Philippine laws?
No, divorce is not allowed in the Philippines. However, there are certain instances wherein the divorce secured abroad by the foreigner-spouse, and even by former Filipinos, are recognized under Philippine laws.
Would it make any difference if I marry abroad where divorce is allowed?
No. Filipinos are covered by this prohibition based on the “nationality principle”, regardless of wherever they get married (and regardless where they get a decree of divorce).
I was married in the Philippines and secured a divorce in the United States. Both of us are Filipinos and my spouse voluntarily signed the divorce papers. After the divorce, I married another guy, a former Filipino who had acquired U.S. citizenship. I am still a Filipino citizen. Is my previous marriage still valid in the Phils.?
Yes, the first marriage is still considered valid in the Philippines because divorce between Filipinos, wherever secured and even if with the consent of both spouses, is not recognized under Philippine laws. In other words, as far as the Philippines is concerned, the second marriage is null and void.
If divorce is not allowed in the Philippines, does this mean that spouses have no remedy in getting out of a problematic marriage?
While divorce is against public policy and is prohibited by law, the Family Code provides for certain grounds to annul a marriage or declare it as null and void.
Is “annulment” different from a “declaration of nullity” of marriage?
Yes. In essence, “annulment” applies to a marriage that is considered valid, but there are grounds to nullify it. A “declaration of nullity” of marriage, on the other hand, applies to marriages that are void or invalid from the very beginning. In other words, it was never valid in the first place.
Also, an action for annulment of voidable marriages may prescribe, while an action for declaration of nullity of marriage does not prescribe.
So, if a marriage is void from the very beginning (void ab initio), there’s no need to file anything in court?
For purposes of remarriage, there must be a court order declaring the marriage as null and void. Entering into a subsequent marriage without such court declaration means that: (a) the subsequent marriage is void; and (b) the parties open themselves to a possible charge of bigamy.
What if no marriage certificate could be found?
Justice Sempio-Dy, in the “Handbook of on the Family Code of the Philippines” (p. 26, 1997 reprint), says: “The marriage certificate is not an essential or formal requisite of marriage without which the marriage will be void. An oral marriage is, therefore, valid, and failure of a party to sign the marriage certificate or the omission of the solemnizing officer to send a copy of the marriage certificate to the proper local civil registrar, does not invalidate the marriage. Also the mere fact that no record of marriage can be found, does not invalidate the marriage provided all the requisites for its validity are present.” (Citations omitted)
What are the grounds for annulment?
1. Lack of parental consent in certain cases. If a party is 18 years or over, but below 21, and the marriage was solemnized without the consent of the parents/guardian. However, the marriage is validated if, upon reaching 21, the spouses freely cohabited with the other and both lived together as husband and wife.
2. Insanity. A marriage may be annulled if, at the time of marriage, either party was of unsound mind, unless such party after coming to reason, freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife.
3. Fraud. The consent of either party was obtained by fraud, unless such party afterwards, with full knowledge of the facts constituting the fraud, freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife. Fraud includes: (i) non-disclosure of a previous conviction by final judgment of the other party of a crime involving moral turpitude; (ii) concealment by the wife of the fact that at the time of the marriage, she was pregnant by a man other than her husband; (iii) concealment of sexually transmissible disease or STD, regardless of its nature, existing at the time of the marriage; or (iv) concealment of drug addiction, habitual alcoholism or homosexuality or lesbianism existing at the time of the marriage. However, no other misrepresentation or deceit as to character, health, rank, fortune or chastity shall constitute such fraud as will give grounds for action for the annulment of marriage.
4. Force, intimidation or undue influence. If the consent of either party was obtained by any of these means, except in cases wherein the force, intimidation or undue influence having disappeared or ceased, the complaining party thereafter freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife.
5. Impotence. At the time of marriage, either party was physically incapable of consummating the marriage with the other, and such incapacity continues and appears to be incurable. Impotence is different from being infertile.
6. STD. If, at the time of marriage, either party was afflicted with a sexually-transmissible disease found to be serious and appears to be incurable. If the STD is not serious or is curable, it may still constitute fraud (see No. 3 above).
What if a spouse discovers that his/her spouse is a homosexual or is violent, can he/she ask for annulment?
Homosexuality or physical violence, by themselves, are not sufficient to nullify a marriage. At the very least, however, these grounds may be used as basis for legal separation.
How is “legal separation” different from annulment?
The basic difference is this – in legal separation, the spouses are still considered married to each other, and, thus, may not remarry.
What are the grounds for legal separation?
1. Repeated physical violence or grossly abusive conduct directed against the petitioner, a common child, or a child of the petitioner.
2. Physical violence or moral pressure to compel the petitioner to change religious or political affiliation.
3. Attempt of respondent to corrupt or induce the petitioner, a common child, or a child of the petitioner, to engage in prostitution, or connivance in such corruption or inducement.
4. Final judgment sentencing the respondent to imprisonment of more than six years, even if pardoned.
5. Drug addiction or habitual alcoholism of the respondent.
6. Lesbianism or homosexuality of the respondent.
7. Contracting by the respondent of a subsequent bigamous marriage, whether in the Philippines or abroad.
8. Sexual infidelity or perversion.
9. Attempt by the respondent against the life of the petitioner.
10. Abandonment of petitioner by respondent without justifiable cause for more than one year.
The term “child” shall include a child by nature or by adoption.
What happens if after learning that your husband (or wife) is unfaithful (No. 8 above), you still cohabitate with him/her?
This may be construed as condonation, which is a defense in actions for legal separation. In addition to condonation, the following are the defenses in legal separation:
1. Consent.
2. Connivance (in the commission of the offense or act constituting the ground for legal separation).
3. Mutual guilt (both parties have given ground for legal separation).
4. Collusion (to obtain decree of legal separation).
5. Prescription (5 years from the occurrence of the cause for legal separation).
If you’re separated from your spouse for 4 years, is that a sufficient ground for annulment?
No. De facto separation is not a ground for annulment. It doesn’t matter if the spouses lived apart or did not see each other for 2, 10, 20 or more years. However, the absence of 2 or 4 years, depending on the circumstances, may be enough to ask the court for a declaration of presumptive death of the “absent spouse”, in which case the petitioner may again re-marry.
What are the grounds for declaration of nullity of marriage?
1. Minority (those contracted by any party below 18 years of age even with the consent of parents or guardians).
2. Lack of authority of solemnizing officer (those solemnized by any person not legally authorized to perform marriages, unless such marriages were contracted with either or both parties believing in good faith that the solemnizing officer had the legal authority to do so).
3. Absence of marriage license (except in certain cases).
4. Bigamous or polygamous marriages (except in cases where the other spouse is declared as presumptively dead).
5. Mistake in identity (those contracted through mistake of one contracting party as to the identity of the other).
6. After securing a judgement of annulment or of absolute nullity of marriage, the parties, before entering into the subsequent marriage, failed to record with the appropriate registry the: (i) partition and distribute the properties of the first marriage; and (ii) delivery of the children’s presumptive legitime.
7. Incestous marriages (between ascendants and descendants of any degree, between brothers and sisters, whether of the full or half blood).
8. Void by reason of public policy. Marriages between (i) collateral blood relatives whether legitimate or illegitimate, up to the fourth civil degree; (ii) step-parents and step-children; (iii) parents-in-law and children-in-law; (iv) adopting parent and the adopted child; (v) surviving spouse of the adopting parent and the adopted child; (vi) surviving spouse of the adopted child and the adopter; (vii) an adopted child and a legitimate child of the adopter; (viii) adopted children of the same adopter; and (ix) parties where one, with the intention to marry the other, killed that other person’s spouse, or his or her own spouse.
9. Psychological Incapacity. Psychological incapacity, which a ground for annulment of marriage, contemplates downright incapacity or inability to take cognizance of and to assume the basic marital obligations; not a mere refusal, neglect or difficulty, much less, ill will, on the part of the errant spouse. Irreconcilable differences, conflicting personalities, emotional immaturity and irresponsibility, physical abuse, habitual alcoholism, sexual infidelity or perversion, and abandonment, by themselves, also do not warrant a finding of psychological incapacity. We already discussed the guidelines and illustrations of psychological incapacity, including a case involving habitual lying, as well as the steps and procedure in filing a petition.
Please note, however, that there are still other grounds to declare a marriage as null and void.
Can I file a petition (annulment or declaration of absolute nullity of marriage) even if I am in a foreign country?
Yes, the rules recognize and allow the filing of the petition by Filipinos who are overseas.
Update: Browse through the comments below to check if your questions are similar to that of others. Other common issues are consolidated in Part II or in Costs in seeking an Annulment.
my friends marriage was just annulled, it didnt cost him that much & was done in 7 months. definitely legal. let me know if your interested. pls do email me at mysneercat@gmail.com .thank you
Good Day,
Just call me Gwen ( not my real name) male and 38 years old working as an OFW. Almost 4 years na po kami kasal ng wife ko pero di pa po kami nabiyayaan ng anak. May mga differences po kami and most of the time ako po ang laging nagpapasensya just to save our marriage, in other words mataas po ang ego ng misis ko. May bipolar po sya at may suicidal dentencies which after our wedding days ko lang nalaman dahil pinagtapat po niya. Ang hindi ko lang po matanggap sa aking asawa ay kung kami ang magkakaroon ng pagtatalo ay madalas ang pagbibitiw niya ng mga masasama at masasakit na salita laban sa aking na halos ako po ay parang nakapatay na ng tao, gayong sa aming pagsasama po ay ni minsan ay hindi ko po sya nagawang pagsalitaan ng masasakit na salita. Ang masakit po nito ay kung kami ay magaaway ay lagi po niyang sinasaktan ang kanynag sarili sa pamamagitan ng paglalaslas ng pulso o di kaya naman ay pagsaksak sa kanyang sarili. Ako po ay natatakot baka kung ano pa po ang kaya o mas higit gawin ng aking asawa. Pwede po ba akong mag file ng psychological incapacity for marriage annulment? Pagpayuhan nyo po ako.
Regards and God Bless you always,
Respectfully yours,
Gwen
Dear Sir,
My name is Marie 42 yrs old we been separated for over 22 yrs but we dont have any document/papers of proof us of this time we both have same partner in life but because i had to continue my life by mistake way back 1991 i already used his surname to work overseas so when i intend to change my name during 1994 the DFA not allowed me to used my fathers surname instead i need to continue using his name , so in the end of the day till now im still using his surname but he already married last April 2007 so my question sir i dont have enough money to file an annulment so what is the best thing i could do to remove the name and i can go on in my life , because so far i always having problem in document because i really don’t want him to includes in any of my papers. so kindly advice me where to go and whom i can seek help . Hoping for your prompt reply soonest . Thank you
Regards
Marie
Hi,
I just found out that Filipino Muslims can file for divorce. I am married to one but through civil as I am a christian. Can he file for Divorce given the fact that he is a muslim? please advise. Thanks
Ask ko po sana Atty if after the annulment, pwede na po ba ako magpakasal agad?maybe about a month after..?thanks po.
Dear Atty,
Can the annulment be approved even if my husband (who’s filing it) still lives in the same house with me and the children, still helps in the household chores, and still sleeps with me in the same bed (and initiates sexual contact at least twice a week), but does not talk to me intentionally except when it’s really necessary (like where are his car key)? I really don’t get this but he said, this can fall under psychological incapacity on his part, and that his laywer is ok with this, because it’ll fall under quirks and the petition will be approved anyway. Don’t get me wrong I still love my husband and want to keep this marriage, and if agreeing to have sexual contact with him will help in the disapproval of his ptition for annulment i would still gladly continue to sleep with him, but if the judge will disapprove the petition despite of having sexual contact (as it’s a man’s need, etc. etc) then there’s no point of living in the same house (or sleeping with him). On the first place, he can always deny that he initiates it, so how will I prove this in court? By the way, we are also living overseas. Please advise.
ARA
magandang araw po,..
ask ko lang po,… atty….pwede po ba ako mag file ng analment dto sa hongkong? 5 taon na po akong hiwalay sa assawa ko at ofw po ako dto sa hongkong,..
Shan
Ngwowork po ako dto s Hongkong.. more than 5yrs n po akong hiwalay s ama ng 2 kong anak, pwede po ba akong magfile dito s hongkong pr sa annulment…?? paano po ang una kong magiging hakbang n gagawin… saan po ako pwede lumapit..? Gaano po katagal o kabilis ang proseso?
Hoping for immediate response.
Thank you so much po
Dear Atty,
I’ve been separated with my husband for 12 years, is that a sufficient ground for annulment? Please advice…Thank you so much and God Bless!
Regards,
Ellen
Dear Elena, please read the article again. Maybe you missed the portion that would address your concern. Good luck.
Good Day to all.
I got married to a British national in NOV 2006 in angeles pampanga, and after only 3 months he left after we had argument about his real person and never saw him again. He have threatened me through chat and email, financially and emotionally crippled me. When i heard from him late DEC 2007 only to receive email with copy of his marriage certificate to another woman in UK. And when i ask him why did he not get divorce first his reply was he never registered our marriage in UK so no reason for him to file divorce and he does not plan to come back and pay for annulment he wanted me to suffer and not be able to re-marry or have a life. I was told that if he gets divorce in UK it will be honored here. So one time i was able to scare him of bigamy and get him to talk to divorce lawyer in UK but after they sent me draft of proposed divorce and after i sent them documents they ask for i got message from his solicitors saying that my ex or husband did not go back and not pushed through with the case. He knew i do not have the capability to file case because i don’t have enough money, so he just played and fooled me to believing that he was going to take care of it. What kind of law or country do we have if it can not even protect the rights of it’s citizens. I am financially broke, i have one daughter from previous relationship who is in college and can not afford to file annulment or even bigamy since i do not know how he can be persecuted, it has been almost 5 years am suffering from abandonment and not being able to move on and have new life due to our Philippine laws. And because i had been in the news long time ago, i am so ashamed to even file a case afraid of what people might say. I am BEGGING GABRIELA please don’t stop pushing divorce law, and if anyone can help me. I need advice. Is there a way for me to file bigamy and annulment without having to pay big money? Can a PAO help me? I hope that our bishops and priest consider and think of cases like mine before they say NO to divorce. I’ am a catholic, but sometimes I even think of becoming a Muslim just so i can get divorce and have fair chance in life like foreigners do. May God Bless Us All…. Thank you very much..
hy lyn we have the same sentiments
and yes pao can accept our case but it will be depend if they will accpept because of being over loaded cases
go to your nearest PAO
i will be gong to pao office in my place this week
to seek legal aid and help
good luck to you
do u have email add?
Hi Lyn, me too is suffering for being not annuled but im separated in fact. I am also wishing and hoping..praying hard that the Divorce Bill will be approved by our law. I cannot understand why until now,government do not see the effects of this problems to those people like us. Why not let us be happy..that is all we need. i cannot also file annulment because the cost is too much that makes me feel helpless and frustrated.. they said there is a second glory after your worst thing came into your life…but with this..im losing my faith. How many of us suffers in this situation..that only few lawmakers want to help us but most of them dont have the heart to spare this grieving.. they do not know how it feels when your heart is breaking, when your mind is tired of thinking until when…. will you be free. We need another chance in life..we need support for those we believe they are our DEFENDERS not to put us down when we are already on the ground. If they cant passed the Divorce lower the annulment cost..its not a business but service for the needy. We need to be happy that’s all.
attorney, can i asked u if how i file a separation or divorced but im her in abroad what i should i do we are separated now its coming 5 yrs can’t you advice for me what i do attorney.
my cousin secretly married few years back here in the philippines. when they moved to UK and gained citizenship, they decided to separate due to differences. they were not living under the same roof for 2 years now and my cousin wanted to file a divorce or an annulment, whatever is needed, against his wife. what shall he do? does he have to file a divorce in UK and still be recognized in the philippines or does he have to file annulment in the philippines eventhough they are both british citizens now? your reply is highly appreciated. thanks.